Nostalgia, Teachers day

Thaaankyooo Teeeecher

Kya aapko yaad hai wo waqt jab hum chote the aur teacher ko ek sur mein good morning kehte the? Phir jab techer sit down kehti to sab phir ek sur mein thaaankyooo teeeecher bolte the. Pata nahin kyon is tarah sur mein kyon good morning aur thank you bola jaata tha. Ab ka to nahin pata lekin humaare zamaane mein to hota tha aisa kai jagah maslan humaare school mein.

Kya aap bhi isi tarah gaa gaa ke good morning bolte the?🗣🗣

Aaj ka ya post teachers ki nazar hai. It is dedicated to our dear teachers jinhon mehnat mushaqqat kari ke humaare nanhe nanhe bhejon mein koi kaam ki baat ghus jaae.

Pichla post nihaayat hi fuzool ya fazool tareen post tha. Likh rahe the ye post aur achaanak kuch aur post kar diya. Na sar na pair bus ek dam se ek ajeeb sa post. Hota hai kabhi kabhi aisa. Ab aisa to ho nahin sakta ke har waqt sab acha hi ho. Sab hum acha hi likhenge to phir kharab kaun likhenga 😃😄. Kabhi kabhi kharab kaam ya failure insaan ko apne andar jhaankne ja mauqa deta hai. It makes you think over ke kahan kya ghalti hui. Phir insaan jaldi wo ghalti dohraata nahin hain ya wohi ghalti karne ke chances kam hote hain.

Baharhaal kuch dinon pehle humaare bachon ke school mein teachers day celebrate kiya gaya tha. Aur kuch din humen lag rahe hain lekin is baat ko ek maheena guzar chuka. To socha teacher day ke baare mein kuch likha jaae.

Dedicating this post to all my teachers and teachers all around the world, the ones my shape, mould and guide us.

It is all known, he who teaches is a teacher. The most respected and dignified profession in the world is teaching. Teachers are the architect of a nation. A teacher is a man of obedience and respect. Teachers can very easily decide what they want the nation to look like and educate the masses accordingly. They have the ability and the strength to fight the odds and make the nation powerful. They are the people behind the world’s development. Imam Ghazali used to say “Teachers are not kings but they know how to make kings.” It’s only a teacher who can transform a simple boy into the likes of Pluto, Aristotle, Einstein, Wordsworth and many more.

Teachers ka bachon ki zindagi aur shakhsiyat par bohot gehra asar hota hai aur kuch nahi to unki baaten dil o dimaagh mein zehn-nasheen ho jaati hain.

Post jahan likhna shuru hua nahin ke ek ek kar ke teachers ke tamaam dialogues yaad aa gae.

School aur college chod kar zamaane hue lekin teachers ki kahi hui baaten unke dialogues aaj bhi yaad hain. I would to love the share them with you. Tab to sun kar ghussa bhi aaya tha lekin ab hansi aati hai yaad kar ke.

Sab se best to college mein English literature ki teacher waala tha jab students koi bataaya hua kaam submit nahin karte the.

“If you don’t this it’s your funeral” 😀😃😄😆. Shaayad hi kisi ne aisa dialogue suna hoga.

Tenth standard board exams se pehle last clas thi aur science teacher bachon ko instructions de rahi thi to kaha “study well and don’t search for words in your pockets and on the walls”.

Ek daur tha jab autograph books hoti theen school students ke paas. Humne bhi apni ek autograph book mein kuch teachers se autograph liya tha. I feel so happy and proud to have it with me. It’s a part of the precious memories I have gathered over the years.

A page from my autograph book

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A page from my autograph book

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Ek autograph mein teacher mein ye do quotes likhi theen wo mila to nahin lekin yaad hai zubaani.

“Words and eggs should be handled with care for words once spoken and eggs once broken are the hardest things to repair”

“A slip of foot may soon recover but a slip of tongue may never get over”

Jab teachers class mein kuch kehti theen tab zara bhi ehsaas nahin tha ke ye sab baaten umr bhar yaad rahengi.

Kuch teachers ki kadwi baaten bhi yaad hain lekin unka zikr kar ke ispost ka maza kirkira nahin karna chaahte speacially a few insulting words spoken by one of the teachers of my children 😏😒. I wouldn’t like to name anyone nor say a word lekin ye sadi hui shakal to ban hi jaati hai wo baat yaad kar ke aur shadeed ghussa bhi aata hai. Maana ke teachers ko poora haq hai daantne ka lekin kisi ki bache ya parent ki insult karne ka bilkul bhi ikhtiyaar nahin hai.

Shayad ye teachers ka asar hai ek bache ki zaat par. Unhen pata nahin is baat ka ehsaas hota hai ya nahin lekin unki kahi hui baaten dil par likh jaati hain chaahen wo achi hon ya buri whether it is a good advice, shouting at student or insulting him or her the child never forgets.

Teachers ko is ehsaas hona chaahiye ke unki kahi hui baat ek taalib-e-ilm (student) ki shakhsiyat par bohot asar rakhti hai.Teacher banna koi aasaan kaam nahin hai. Yun to logon ki nazar mein iski shayad ki value ho but he teachers are the ones who mould and shape the future of the child. One good advice given by a teacher can change a students life provided the student takes it seriously.

A page from my autograph book

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According to Enamul Hoque Chowdhury religious teacher at Core Care & coordinator of Mentor English Language Institute, Kushtia, teachers are the first brick in the structure of social development and the cause of guiding and developing behaviours and mentalities of individuals and communities towards the goals.

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Teaching ko aksar log na jaane kyon koi value hi nahin karta. Yun to lagta hai kya bus padhaana hi to hai. Dekhne mein bada aasaan kaam lagta hain magar aasaan hai nahin. Koi hum se kahe ke 5-10 bache kuch der ke liye sambhaalo wo to hum se kiya nahin jaaega to zara sochiye teachers kis tarah itne saare bache na sirf sambhaalti hain magar unhen padhaana likhaana samjhaana sab karti hain. Sab se zyaada mushkil to preprimary aur primary classes ke bachon se deal karne mein hoti hai jinhen kuch bhi samajh nahin aata na apni koi baat wo keh paate hain na samjha paate hain teacher ko.

B.A ke dauran humari Philosophy teacher bachon ko class mein attention na dene ki wajah se aur attendance poora na hone ki wajah se keh rahi the ke hum to grown up adults hain kuch padhna mushkil nahin hai is umr mein, is umr mein to sirf zara sa ghaur karne se hi sab samjha aa jaata hai. Sirf dhyaan dene ki zaroorat hai. Muskhil to ABC seekhne waale nursery aur Kg ke bachon ko hoti hai jinhen kuch bhi aata hi nahin hai. Unho ne kaha unhen padhaana bohot hi challenging kaam hota hai kyon awwal to unhen samajh nahin aata kuch doosre ye ke unka attention span bohot kam hota hai. Unhen padhaana sab se mushkil hota. Students nanhe nanhe hote hain yahan wahan daudte bhaagte hain class mein, shor machaate hain, rote hain, ulti, potty etc etc sab kar kar ke teacher ki naak mein dam kar dete hain aur in sab ke saath saath unhen padhaana. Hats off to teachers. Bade hote hain to alag tarah ki sharaaraten hoti haun unki.

Khair kisi bhi umr ke bachon ko padhaana aaasan nahin hai. Teacher sirf koshish kar sakti hai students hi naalayaq bane to bechaari ya bechaare teacher kya karen. Wo sirf padha hi sakti hain.

Aaj kal bache teachers ki izzat hi nahin karte aur bache kya karenge kab unke walidaen hi nahin karte. Ye to walidaen ki zimmedari hai ke unhen ehsaas dilaaen ke ek ustaad ki ehmiyat kya hai. Walidaen ko sikhaana chaahiye ke unki izzat-o-ikraam karen.

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Today I take this opportunity to thank all my teachers each and everyone of of them and everyone. Aur shukriya har us shakhs ka jis se humne koi bhi sabaq seekha chaahen wo chota ho ya bada.

A sincere and heartfelt thanks to my father and mother who have taught me the most important lessons of life. Jinhon ne zindagi jeene ke usool bataye aur sahi raah dikhaai aur hum se belaus mohobbat di. Allah Taala unhen sehat aur aafiyat waali lambi umr de.

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Daddy hamesha ek quote dohraate hain aur is quote to madde nazar rakhen to zindagi ki koi mushkil mushkil nahin lagegi aur chaahen haalaat kitne hi kyon na kharab hon there will be something you can be thankful for.

“I cried for shoes until I saw a man who had no feet”.

Aur ek sher sunaaya tha kuch arse pehle jiska kuch hissa humen yaad nahin.

Kuch log tamaasha-o-zar-o-maal mein khush hain

Khush hain wohi lekin jo har haal mein khush hain.

In do baaton ke chand lafzon mein zindagi mein khush rehne ka raaz chupa hai.

Ammi ke ehsaanmand hain ke unhon ne khana pakaana sikha diya. Bohot aala to nahin pakaa paate magar guzaare bhar ke liye kaafi hai.

Wo urdu books waghaira padhti theen especially Akhbaar-e-jahan aur unhi ki badaulat urdu padhna aai hai. Ammi us mein se kuch na kuch padh kar sunaati theen aur hum bhi us mein maze maze ki kahaaniyon ke aur pyaare pyare bachon ke photos dekh dekh kar socha karte the ke humen bhi urdu padhna aa jaae. To ammi ne bataya ke tum sirf titles padha karo ye bold letters mein likhe hone ki wajah se padhne mein bohot aasaan lagte the. Yunhin titles read karte karte karte karte urdu padhna aa hi gai. Aur haan bhai aur aapa ki urdu calligraphy, wo bhi bamboo waala jo qalam hua karta tha jise khud haath se churi ya blade se sharp kar ke ink mein dip kar ke likha jaata tha, ye bhi ek wajah thi jis wajah se humen urdu aa gai urdu se mohobbat hogai. Bachpan mein unhen dekhte the to bohot zyada fascinating lagta tha wo ink mein dip kar ke likhna aur phir calligraphy to cheez hi aisi hai ke banda maail hojaata hai. Unki urdu bhi writing bhi badi khoobsurat thi.

As they say “The great teacher inspires” so have my father and brother been a great source of an inspiration for me. I have always admired their beautiful handwriting and imitated the way they write and I must admit that my writing is not even half as good as theirs.

Many thanks to my elder sisters jinhon ne na sirf humen likhna aur padhna sikhaya magar humara har tarah se khayal rakha. Aaj bhi yaad hai cursive writing practice karte the tab ek alphabet ka ek curve bhi sahi nahi hota tha ya alphabet proper line pe touch nahin hota tha to pitaai hoti thi.. Pitaai karne ka bohot bohot shukriya warna aisi writing na hoti jaisi hai. I’m one of those who strongly believe in the quote “Spare the rod and spoil the child”. Haan pitaai ki kuch hudood honi chaahiye. I’m thankful that they didn’t spare the rod.

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Thanks again to my sisters jinhen mehndi lagaate dekh dekh ke mehndi lagaane ka shauq hogaya. Itnaaa zyaada ke bachpan se har jagah har book ke khali page par aur har book ke kone mein yahan wahan bus floral doodle karte rehte the. Aur apni doosri badi behen ka beinteha shukriya jinhon ne kai baar humse apne haath kharab karwaae tab jab humen theek se mehndi lagaana aati nahin tab aur har phool, patti aur bel boote ko theek karwaya.

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Last but not the least thanks a million from the depth of my heart to my islamic studies teacher, quran teacher at school and my mullani) for teaching me quran. Thank you is such a small word for what they have done for me. May Allah reward them with the best in the world and the hereafter for each and every letter they have taught me.

Mullani ka bhi ek dialogue yaad aagaya “Aankhen hain ya button dikhaai nahin deta zer hai ya zabar”. Jab daant padti thi to dar bhi lagta tha aur andar hi andar ye sun ke hansi bhi aati thi.

Ye dialogue to ab hum bhi istemaal karte hain. Waise to humari mullani kabhi maarti nahin theen lekin hum hi bohot slow aur itni ghaltiyen karte the ke humaare saath waale bache kahan se kahan pohonch jaate the aur humaara sabaq jaldi aage hi nahin badhta tha to bezaar hoke unhon ne gaal par ek thappad jad diya us ke baad jo raftar badli hai ke poocho mat. Us thappad ke nihaayat shukrguzaar hain hum. Unke thappad ne humaari aakhirat sanwaar di. Quran padhna to aagaya lekin sawab to jab milega jab use padhenge aur us par kuch amal bhi karenge.

Allah Taala mullani ko beshumaar ajar de quran padhaane ka kyon ke unhen ne sirf aur sirf Allah ki raza ke liye humen padhaaya, itne saare bache aate the padhne kisi se kisi tarah ki koi fees nahin leti theen balki jahan tak humen yaad hai kisi kisi ko ya sabko quran aur rehal bhi wo khud hi deti theen. Unka diye hue quran mein humari beti padhti hai .

Bus Allah Taala taufeeq de ke hum quran padhen, samjhen aur us par amal karen. Allah Taala hum sab ko apne ustaad aur walaidaen ke liye sadqa-e-jaria banaae.

Aakhirkaar badi mushkil se anjaam tak pohoncha hai. Pichle maheene se ye post tukdon niwaalon mein likha hai. Kabhi ek line kabhi do. Reh reh ke ek ek baat yaad aati gai aur is mein jodte chale gae. Sorry post kuch zaroorat se zyada bada lamba hogaya.

Yun to post teachers ke liye likhne ka iraada tha lekin likhte likhte bohot se log shaamil hogae. Jinka zikr kiya unka hazaarha shukriya aur jinke baare likh nahin paae ya unhen bhool gae unka bhi beinteha shukriya.

Kai log to ab bhi baaqi hain aur bohot si baaten aur bhi hain magar ye post already bohot zyada lamba ho chuka. Is liye ab ijaazat chaahte hain. I’m thankful to each and everyone jis se kuch seekhne ko mila. Seekhne sikhaane ka ye silsila ta-umr jaari rahe Aameen.

A note to those who celebrate fathers day, mothers day, friendship day, parents day, this day that day. Know that even though you may celebrate these days but make sure to respect and value them thoughout your lives not just once a year.

References: Status of teacher in Islam.

Nostalgia

Boojho To Jaanen 🧐

Aaj yunhin apni purani kaaghazaat aur books waghaira khol kar dekheen to ek puraana akhbaar haath aaya. Waise to hum kisi aur hi topic par post likh rahe the magar ye akhbaar dekha to socha ke aap se is akhbaar mein se kuch share kiya jaae.

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Nazar guzri is section par “boojho saathiyon boojho” to khayaal aaya ke kyon na aapse in mein se ek paheli poochi jaae 🧐.

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Yun to ye section bachon ka hai magar paheli boojhna to har umr mein acha lagta hai. shayad aap ne suni ho aur jawaab bhi maaloom ho. Dekhte hain kaun pehle jawab deta hai is aasaan si paheli ka. 😀🤓

To paheli ye hai 👇:

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Beshak ho na ho haath mein haath, Chalta hai wo aapke saath.

Paheli boohjo to jaanen.🤔🧐

Jaldi karen. Waiting for your replies. 😀

Motivational, Uncategorized

Ilm Ka Samandar

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Kal ‘thunder and lightning’ ke taalluq se google pe kuch search karte hue pata nahin kya kya scientific facts maaloom hue lightning ke baare mein jo na kabhi sunne the aur na hi padhe. Ek ke baad ek page padhte gae to ehsaas hua ke kya kuch hai duniya mein jis ka humen to koi ilm aur andaaza hi nahin hai aur hum hain ke chaar kitaaben padh kar jo zara si maaloomaat haasil hoti hai us se khud ko aflaatoon samjhne lagte hain.

Insaan chaahe jitnaaaa bhi padhna chaahe aur padhta hi chala jaae tab bhi ilm khatm nahin hoga chaahen apni tamaaam umr bhi laga de tab bhi usne ilm ke samandar se sirf ek qatra hi haasil kiya.

Ye samandar itnaaaaa gehra aur itnaaaaa wasi hai ke chaahen kitne ghote lagaao aur chaahe kitnaaaaa hi kyon na doob jaao iski teh (ya shayad tae) ka andaaza nahin lagaaya ja sakta hai aur na iski gehraai tak pohoncha ja sakta. Is mein jo jitna dooba hai utna hai ubhra hai, aur jo doob wahi paar hua hai.

Ilm ke saath saath insaan ka dil bhi saaf hona chaahiye. Ye bohot si kharaabiyon ki jad hai jin mein aksar sab se pehle insaan ko takabbur (pride) aa jaata hai.

Allah Taala hum teri panaah maangte hain us ilm se jo nafa na de aur ilm haasil hone par takabbur se.

Allah ke nazdeek ilm ki fazeelat itni zyada hai ke jis ki wajah se insaan ko farsishton par fauqiyat haasil hai. Farishte to maasoom hain unhen Allah Taala ke hukm ki taameel ke siwa kuch nahin aata. Lekin Allah Taala ne apne bandon ko ilm diya jo farsihton ko nahin diya. Sirf ek ilm ki bina par apne bandon ko farishton pe tarjeeh di hai warna neki ke lihaaz se dekha jaae to kahan farishte kahan insaan.

Aaj ka ye post ek aad mahine pehle taiyyar kiya tha lekin kuch finalize nahin kiya tha is liye post nahi kiya. Kaafi arsa hua kuch post nahin kiya. Haalaat saazgaar nahin the to kuch post hi nahin kar paae. Waqt ki kami ke baais socha ke apne drafts mein se hi kuch post kar dete hain.

Umeed hai aap sab khairiyat se honge. Allah Taala sab ki hifaazat farmaae aur har takleef se door rakhe.

Allah humen taufeeq de hum aisa ilm haasil karen jo nafaamand ho.

Nafaamand ilm ka zikr chida hai to bataaiye aapka kya khayal hai Art ke baare mein. Bazaahir to art fuzool hi lagta hai aam logon ko siwa un logon ke jo uska shauq rakhte hain. Kya aapko lagta hai is ki koi ehmiyat hai? Kya aapki nazar mein iski koi value hai?

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Urdu Poetry

Apni Marzi

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“Apni marzi se kahan apne safar ke hum hain

Rukh hawaaon ka jidhar ka hai udhar ke hum hain

Pehle har cheez thi apni magar ab lagta hai

Apne hi ghar mein kisi doosre ghar ke hum hain

Waqt ke saath hai mitti ka safar sadiyon se

Kisko maaloom kahan ke hain kidhar ke hum hain

Chalte rehte hain ke chalnaa hai musaafir ka naseeb

Sochte rehte hain kis raahguzar ke hum hain

Hum wahan hain jahan kuch bhi nahin rasta na dayar

Apne hi khoe hue shaam-o-sahar ke hum hain

Gintiyon mein hi gine jaate hain har daur mein hum

Har qalamkaar ki benaam khabar ke hum hain – Nida Fazli

Kai baar zindagi mein hum bohot kuch sochte hain bohot kuch chaahte hain magar ya haalaat mukhaalif hote hain ya sab kuch soch se bilkul ulat hota hai. Apni zindagi bhi ek badbani kashti ki tarah hai jo haalat ki ravish par aage badhti hai. Kab zindagi mein wo hota hai jo insaan chaahta hai. Hum itni lambi lambi taweelen karte hain, plans banaate hain ke ye karna hai wo karna hai, ye chaahiye aur ye nahin lekin aane waala lamha hi tae karta hai ke hona kya hai.

Itne saare aur itne confusing khayalaat zehen mein aa rahe the bohot kuch likha aur mitaaya, phir likha aur phir mitaaya ye soch kar ke padhne wala pareshaan na ho jaaen.

Khair, Nida Fazli ki ye dil ko choo jaane waali ghazal har us lamhe ke naam jab hum sochte kuch hain aur hota kuch hai, chaahte kuch hain aur milta kuch hai aur jab mil bhi jaae to aage wo hota nahin jo humne socha hota hai. Baharhaal apni marzi to hoti hi nahin.

Hamd Baari Taala, Motivational, Urdu Poetry

Khizaan Mein Bhi Shukr-e-Khuda

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Pichli martaba jab garmiyon ki chutti mein Ammi Daddy ke ghar gae tab Daddy ki tabiyat bohot zyada kharab thi, aur unse log aksar phone par ya ghar aate the haal chaal maaloom karne ke liye. Daddy ka ek andaaz hai ke har baat par ek sher sunaate hain. Baharhaal kisi ne daddy ki tabiyat poochi to us par Daddy ne Allah ka shukr kiya aur ye khoobsurat sher sunaaya.

“Ae bulbulon khizaan mein bhi Shukr-e-Khuda karo,

Tinke kahan se laaoge fasl-e-bahaar mein”.

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In do ashaar ne to jaise zindagi ki har takleef aur mushkilaat ko dekhne ka nazariya hi badal diya. Aur sach hai ke humen siwa maayoosi bhari baaten karne ke, pareshan rehne ke aur pareshani zaahir karne ke alaawa koi kaam nahin.

Jahan koi pareshaani aati nahin hai ke hum Allah ki di hui tamaam nematen bhool jaate hain, wo nematen jo Wo hamesha deta raha aur ab bhi de raha hai aur shikwe shikaayaton ke ambaar laga dete hain, aur nashukri ki baaten karte hain ke humaare saath to hamesha aisa hi hota hai.

Hum sirf ye dekhte hain ke kya nemat Us ne hum se le li ye nahin dekhte ke kya de raha hai aur aage bhi dega In Sha Allah. Kyon ke banda apne Rab ko waisa paata hai jaisa ke uska gumaan hai.

Ae Allah Tujh se dua hai ke hum Tujh se badgumaan aur badzan na hon, humen taufeeq de ke Teri di hui tamaam nematon ko pehchaanen aur Tere shukshukr guzaar banen.

Rabbi awzi’ni an ashkura ni’matak-allati an’amta ‘alayya wa ‘ala walidayya wa an amal salihan tardahu wa aslih li fi dhurriyati

Translation: Ae mere Rab! mujhe taufeeq de ke main Teri is nemat ka shukr ada karoon jo Toone mujh par aur mere walidaen par ataa farmaai aur ye ke aisa nek amal karoon jis se Tu raazi hojaae aur mere liye meri aulaad ki islaah farma de.

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Motivational

Main Bohot Pareshaan Hoon

Assalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Baraktuhu (May the peace mercy and blessings of Allah be with you). I’m back today with another post with a dose full of positivity by Salman Imdad. Kuch din pehle jinki ek nazm ‘Mayoos Na Ho Salman’ humne aap sab se share ki thi. Aaj ki post ka unwaan hai Me Boht Pareshan Hun!.

Salman Imdad
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“Bohot saare logon se hum zindagi mein salaam ke baad unka haal poochte hain to wo kehte hain ke “Yaaaar bus haalat kharaab hai, yaar ye ho raha hai, bus job chootne waali hai, Yaaar bus tabiyat kharaab hai, yaar mere to haalaat kharaab hain, mere paas paise nahin hain”.

Itniii pareshaaniyaan aapko ginwaate hain aap bolte hain “kya iski zindagi jahannam bani hui hai iski to”. Kya aapne kabhi khud kisi ko (chod do doosron ko) bola hai ke “main bohot khush hoon”? Kabhi bhi… Ikka dukka koi log honge. Lekin kya aapne kisi ko bolte hue suna hai “Main bohot khush hoon”. Kabhi bol ke try kiya hai ke “Main bohot khush hoon”. Ek dafa try to karo. Bolo “Allah ka shukar hai Alhamdulillah main bohot khush hoon”.

Sab bolte hain “Alhamdulillah Lekin Yaaar” wo jo Lekin yaar ke baad gandi si shakal banti hai na 😞☹️😖, mat banaao, chodo rehne do. Jab koi pooche na ke “Kaise ho” bolo “Main bohot khush hoon”. Try kar ke dekh lo bhale khush na ho, try kar ke dekho teen, chaar, paanch din. Sirf teen, chaar, paanch din ye bol ke dekho. Yaqeen maano, qasam se zindagi aapki khush hone lag jaaegi.

Apni har cheez ka shukar karo, Aapka apna zinda hone ka shukar karo aur Allah Ta’ala se ye cheez maango ke hum khush rahen. Bajaae iske ke Bohot saaare log maine dekhe hain jo khush hote hain lekin phir bhi bol rahe hote hain “Yaar main khush nahin hoon”. Pata nahin kyon???

Main to kehta hoon khush nahin bhi ho na tab bhi kaho “Main khush hoon” to aisa time aaega ke aap khush hoge, Jin cheezon mein khushi nahin hai un cheezon mein bhi aapko khushi milegi. Aise kar ke muskuraao aur is video ko share karo aur aise logon ko tag karo jo har waqt 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♂️rote rehte hain”. – Salman Imdad

The above words are a part of Salman Imdad’s video Me Boht Pareshan Hun!.

Video dekha aur laga Share zaroor karna chaahiye kyon ke ye hum sab ka maamool ho chuka hai ke sab ko sirf apni pareshaniyaan bataaen. Muskuraakar Allah ka shukr karna to hum bhool hi gae.

A reminder to myself first and for all of us :

Muskuraane ko ek aadat banaane ki koshish karen aur Allah ke waaste kabhi to muskuraakar apna haal ehwaal bataaen Aur Allah ki raza mein raazi hokar rehna seekhen. Zindagi pur-sukoon aur pur-aman banjaaegi.

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Muskuraahat hai husn ka zewar,

Muskuraana na bhool jaaya karo”. – Abdul Hamid Adam

Let’s spread positivity around and not nag about the little or the not so little things in our life and count our blessings instead.

Keep Smiling and Have a happy day🌸😊😀

Ghar Rahen, Mehfooz Rahen.

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‘Tis Easy Doodle

One of my favourite quote

I started this doodle many days ago, drew something bit by bit but completed it today and added one of my favourite quotes to this doodle by Ella Wheeler Wilcox .

” Tis easy enought to be pleasant, when life flows like a song, but the man worth while is the one who will smile when everything goes dead wrong”.

Khushi mein har ek muskuraata hai, maza to jab hai ke koi mushkilaat mein bhi muskuraata rahe. Jigar chaahiye mushkil waqt mein muskuraane ko. Isi baat par ek sher bhi aap sab ki pesh e nazar. Shayar ka naam nahin malum.

Jis ne adaa seekh li gham mein muskuraane ki,

Use kya mitaaengi gardishen zamaane ki.

Digital Age, Social Media

Like, Comment And Reality

Yesterday I came across this interesting article “The Psychology of Social Media: Why We Like, Comment, and Share Online”. Though it was a bit lengthy but it was an engaging read and I was compelled to scroll down and read it till the end. Could you ever imagine there’s something like social media biology? I never even thought about it. Did you ever know why we like, comment and share online? Read this article to know all about it.

Somewhere in the article I read that “comments about you are a reflection of you to the consumer”. Appreciation kise nahin acha lagta lekin I always feel no matter how one thinks about how we are on social media but in reality we are quite different.

In the virtual world we are so sweet to everyone but we are who we are when we are home or when we are alone, how we are to our loved ones. Real world is so different. When someone comments something nice about my blog certainly it feels nice but I feel in my heart, that’s probably because they don’t know me. Here’s when we need to make this wonderful dua:

Allahumma-ja’lni khayran mima yadhunoon wa-ghfir li ma la ya’lamoon wa la tu’akhidhni bi ma yaquloon.

O Allah, make me better than what they think of me, and forgive me for what they do not know about me, and do not take me to account for what they say about me.

Binte Bashir via Canva

I find it so difficult to be who I am not and I dislike portraying myself and my thoughts falsely and every thing false and I have an aversion towards such people who pretend to be someone that is so different from who they really are. One should always be truthful but the irony is that Truth is always bitter and people often don’t like to hear the truth. Plato once said “No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth” but I don’t really mind. It might be heartbreaking for a few but I even don’t like false likes and false comments. Acha lage to like kariye na lage to aage badhiye aur humaare khayal se is mein humen ya kisi ko bura maanne ki koi baat nahin hai. At least you know the real worth of whatever you are posting or yourself and taking it positively for improving yourself.

But unfortunately log sachai zyada pasand nahin karte.

I simply can’t click that like button if the post doesn’t match my interests or if there’s something in the post that is different from my views. Saying so doesn’t mean that a post that I don’t like is a bad post it might be nice to someone else. It’s simply because everyone’s likes dislike are different and there’s no obligation on others to like what I like. You can choose something different. I feel that’s how it should be. Those who genuinely like your posts care enough to express their like by sending you at least a few words of appreciation and motivation warna like to yunhin har koi click kar hi deta hai.

Kai baar kisi ki post bohot zyada perfect nahin ho aur topic acha ho tab bhi like aur comment karna chaahiye kyon ke jahan tak ghalti ki baat hai to ghaltiyen to insaanon se hi hoti hain aur hum sab seekh hi rahe hain aur koi professional writers ya bloggers to hain nahin. After all we all need motivation aur har kaam aate aate hi aata hai. Aur Agar hum near to perfect hain tab bhi yehi soch kar chalna chaahiye ke hum sab seekh hi rahe hain. This attitude allows us to be humble and we are always ready to learn something.

I like constructive criticism in a polite manner that helps us to see our flaws, ponder over them and correct them warna na to khud ko koi khaami apne aap mein nazar aaegi nahin aur na hi wo khaami durust hogi. Humaare khayal se bande ko itna to dil bada rakhna chaahiye ke koi aapko koi negative comment kare to aap use positively len. Yahan phir ye hota hai ke hum asal zindagi mein aur virtual life mein bohot different react karte hain, bohot zyada different na bhi hon to kuch to farq hota hai. Virtual life ya social media mein to negative comment ko positively lenge lekin real life koi negative comment kare to dushman ban jaata hai (nek log aise nahin hote im talking about normal people like myself).

Yehi sab sochte sochte pata nahin kya kya dimaagh mein chalne laga aur ye sach jhoot aur bohot saari baaten soch kar blog delete karne hi waale the. Phir socha acha ek aad blog kar len aur phir ise delete kar denge. Ek GOODBYE blog shuru bhi kar chuke hain. Khair jab tak hain yahan tab tak hain aur jab tak hain tab tak to aap ko jhelna hi padenge ye blogs.

Isi baat par Hairat Allahabadi se inspire hokar abhi abhi ye sher dimaagh mein aaya hai mulaahiza farmaaiye:

Kab tak WordPress par hain kuch khabar nahin

Saamaan sau baras ka hai pal ki khabar nahin

In the end we must remember that these likes and dislikes are all virtual. It’s all virtual and if we take it as reality it might lead to serious depression and self esteem related issues.

Well, these are the rambling thought that came to my mind when I read that post about Psychology of social media. Baat shuru kahan hui aur kahan aake khatm hui. Aapke kya khayalaat hain is baare mein bataaiye zaroor. I would be glad to hear what you have to say regarding this.

Do Read more about Social media likes, comments and shares I’m sure it will be an eye opener.

The Psychology Of Social Media: Why We Like, Share And Comment Online

The psychology of a like: How social media is really affecting your brain

Comments and likes don’t portray reality

Nostalgia, Rainy Day

It Raining It’s Pouring

Hi all, Assalamualaikum. May the Peace, mercy and blessings of Allah (God) with you. The weather here in Bombay has been changing since few days and now all of a sudden it’s raining and pouring and the rain brings back to my mind those lovely childhood days and the sweet rhymes.

Sharing with you all these wonderful nursery rhymes that I have always held close to my heart and on rainy days like these they just keep coming back to my mind.

🌧🌧 Rain is falling very fast we can’t go out to play,

We are happy, all so happy on this rainy day… la la la la la la la”🌧🌧

Another one from Mother Goose:

🌧🌧🌧🌧It’s raining, it’s pouring,
The old man’s snoring.
He got into bed
And bumped his head
And couldn’t get up in the morning.
🌧🌧🌧🌧

And last but not the least this popular rhyme. I’m sure its an all time favourite of everyone.

Rain rain go away,

Come again another day,

Little Johnny wants to play.

But I certainly wouldn’t want the rain to come another as we all are enjoying this day🌧🌧🌧.

I know these rhymes might be sounding so childish and foolish to some but I guess each one of us has a child residing deep inside us, that shows up here and there at certain times.

Well for now let’s relax and enjoy the lovely weather.

Hope you all are enjoying too 🌧🌧🌧.

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Mullaani Hogai Hai

Jab koi aadmi Allah Taala ko uski poori azmat ke saath paa leta hai, to uske andar ek roohani hulchul paida ho jaati hai, us hulchul se kya hota hai har waqt use Allah Taala ki yaad aati hai. Aisa kyon? Beikhtiyaar kyon ho jaata hai?

Ab sote hue uth rahe hain “Allah”,

Ab sone ja rahe hain “Allah”,

Ab kuch dekhte hain fauran “Allah”,

Ye kaise hota hai, kyon ke Allah ko shaoor ke saath paaya hai na to dil mein ek iztiraab (restlessness) hai, uski yaad hai jo zubaan pe beikhtiyaar aa jaata hai,

kabhi zabaan se shukar ke kalimaat nikalte hain “Alhamdulillah”,

Kabhi dar lagta hai to kehte hain “Astaghfirullah”,

Kabhi koi achi cheez dekhte hain “Masha Allah”,

Hairat hoti hai to “Subhan Allah”,

Humaari to lughat (language) se ye baaten nikal gaeen aur humko ye lafz bolne mein bhi sharm aati hai ab, log kya kahenge “Mullani hogai hai”.

Ye mullani ke alfaz nahin hain, ye Allah ki mohobbat karne waalon ke besaakhta (involuntary) jumle (sentences) hain.

Lekin aap dekhen ke aaj ke log badi badi gaadiyon mein baith kar, bade bade gharon mein reh kar, bade bade ohdon(positions) aur jobs pe itminaan (peace) se mehroom hain, ajeeb pareshani ka shikaar hain, jitni maadi(material) taraqqi badhi utni besukooni badhi, har taraf comfort dene waale saaman maujood hain, thick carpets, bhaari parde, bhaari furniture, behtareen khaane, umda(excellent) libaas lekin sukoon naam ki cheez nahin hai, sab cheezen ajnabi aur moo chidaati hui nazar aati hain, haqeeqi khushi nahi logon ke chehron par, masnooi(artificial) muskurahat ke peeche ek fikar ki lehar saaf dekhi ja sakti hai. Kyon? Iski wajah kya hai? Iski wajah ye hai ke khushi to rooh ko hoti hai na, aur rooh ka saaman Quran hai jo Rooh-ul-Ameen le kar aae.

Aur hum usko khush karna chaahte hain maadi (material) cheezon se maslan bacha khilauna maang raha hai aur hum usko khaana khilaane lag jaaen. To wo khush ho Jaaega? Wo kahega mujhe khilauna chaahiye aur aap kahen aao khaana khaao. Wo aur cheekhega main khaana maang raha hoon aap mujhe khaana khilaate hain, kyon ke wo to aam taur par(normally) bhi use khaana nahin acha lagta.

Humaara haal yehi hai, jis cheez ki khushi jis cheez mein hai wohi milegi to rooh khush hogi. Ab aap dekhen ke ek Insaan se mil ke aapko khushi hoti hai, wo na mile saikadon(thousands) log milen. Dil ka Kya haal hota hai? Khush hote hain aap? Nahin! Aur wo ek mil jaae to sab kuch mil jaata hai. Kyon ke rooh ki khushi is mein hai, us se zyaada khoobsoorat aur maaldar logon mein nahin hai, us ek mein hai.

Insaan ashraful makhlooqaat (most evoked) hai uski rooh ki khushi us se kamtar (lesser) cheezon mein nahin hai, ye baaqi saari cheezen hum se kamtar hain na, hum in se bartar (higher) hain, ye saari cheezen humaare liye zaroorat ke liye paida ki gaeen, hum ne inhen poojna shuru kar diya, hum ne in mein khushi talash karni shuru kar di, Humen apne se badi cheez mein sukoon mil sakta hai jo haqeeqi maanon mein hum se badi hai, aur wo ek hi cheez hai ALLAH. Aur jab tak use bhoole rahenge, usko faramosh kare rahenge, us ko chodenge, haqeeqi khushi nahi mil sakti. Apne se kamtar mein sukoon nahi mil sakta apne se bartar mein sukoon milega”.

Note:

The above article is a part of a lecture of Dr. Farhat Hashmi that I heard long ago and I noted it down and today I thought of sharing it with you all. Dr. Farhat Hashmi kisi taaruf ki mohtaaj nahin hain, she’s one of the most famous women scholars of Islam in Pakistan.

Humari to deen mein maloomaat bohot thodi hai is liye socha ke nothing better than precious words of Islamic scholars that I have come across. Blog banaane ka to iraada nahin tha kabhi, lekin hamesha kuch qeemti moti chun chun kar apni kitaabon mein rakhte rahe jis mein se kuch qeemti baaten aaj aap sab se share kari hain. Bus humne jo kuch suna jo kuch padha Allah hum sab ko us par amal ki taufeeq de.

Allah Ta’ala humen taufeeq de ki hum Uska zikr karen, shukr ada karen aur behtareen ibaadat karen.